FAQ
Questions families ask me
Short answers. If yours isn't here, it's a good reason to write.
Known, from day one. You'll know my full name, see my face, and be able to meet me before anything else happens. Your child can know who I am at any age.
An FDA infectious-disease panel, an expanded genetic carrier screening and a semen analysis. I send the actual lab documents with their dates, not a summary, before we go further.
Artificial insemination is the default, at home or at your clinic of choice. If a family would prefer otherwise, that's a conversation we can have, with full and current screening on both sides.
Miami, Florida. I can come to you anywhere in the Miami–Fort Lauderdale area. For the rest of the US, I ship overnight in an insulated kit.
You tell me your expected ovulation window. I collect, pack the sample in an insulated kit with a temperature logger, and send it overnight. It arrives the next morning with instructions and a record of the temperature along the way.
No. I'm a donor, not a parent and not a co-parent. I don't take part in raising your child, I don't make decisions, and I don't show up unannounced.
Whatever you want: regular updates, occasional photos, a visit when the child is old enough to ask, or quiet. I'm available, and I don't push.
If the families agree, yes. I keep a record so that connection is possible later, and I'm open to helping arrange it.
She knows everything and supports it. You can meet her if you'd like to.
No smoking, alcohol, or drugs. Every morning starts with 100 push-ups and 30 minutes of exercise, and I walk about an hour outdoors every day. I eat healthy, organic food and make sleep a priority.
Yes. Single mothers by choice, two-mom couples, and couples with male-factor infertility. Everyone gets the same openness, the same test results, and the same answers.
A 20–30 minute video call, or coffee if you're in Miami. You ask anything, I answer plainly. Nothing is decided on that call.
I'm selective about who I help. What matters to me is that a family is responsible, financially stable, and in good physical and mental health. If I don't think we're the right fit, I'll say so early.
Write to me on the contact page or on WhatsApp. Tell me a little about where you are in the process, and I'll reply within a day.